{"id":10869,"date":"2009-12-12T16:05:43","date_gmt":"2009-12-12T13:05:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/?p=10869"},"modified":"2022-09-06T17:29:52","modified_gmt":"2022-09-06T14:29:52","slug":"ailemi-kesfettim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/ailemi-kesfettim\/","title":{"rendered":"Ailemi ke\u015ffettim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" title=\"M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/muslum-gulhan1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"88\" height=\"115\">Erkek olman\u0131n baz\u0131 dayan\u0131lmaz yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131 olmakla beraber; cinsiyet ayr\u0131m\u0131 yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman bile ayn\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r; aileyi iplememe\u2026<br \/>\n<\/strong>\u015eayet tuzumuz kuruysa,<br \/>\n\u0130\u015flerimiz t\u0131k\u0131r\u0131ndaysa,<br \/>\nBa\u015f\u0131m\u0131z rahat yast\u0131k \u00fcst\u00fcndeyse,<br \/>\n\u0130nan\u0131lmaz bir rahatl\u0131k\u2026<br \/>\nAma nereye kadar?<br \/>\nHuzurumuz ka\u00e7ana kadar,<br \/>\nS\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 s\u00fcreci ya\u015fayana kadar,<\/p>\n<p>Sorunlar\u0131m\u0131zla ba\u015f ba\u015fa kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 koyacak yer arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ondan ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 bulamay\u0131z yan\u0131m\u0131zda.<br \/>\nAnnedir, a\u011fabeydir, ablad\u0131r, babad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bizim i\u00e7in olmazsa olamaz sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kaybetti\u011fimizde; onlardan ba\u015fkas\u0131 yoktur asl\u0131nda hayat\u0131m\u0131zda\u2026<br \/>\n\u0130hanete, terk edilmi\u015fli\u011fe ra\u011fmen, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yokmu\u015f gibi davranma onurunu g\u00f6steren onlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u2026Yani yan\u0131m\u0131zda olan, harbi ailemiz.<br \/>\nT\u00fcm ihanetimizi ruhumuza ka\u00e7\u0131rarak onlara s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmaktan ba\u015fka \u00e7aremizin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etti\u011fimizde \u201cyaz\u0131klar olsun\u201d demekten ba\u015fka bir \u015fey gelmez kendimize.<\/p>\n<p>Asl\u0131nda bu; kendimizle y\u00fczle\u015fmemizden ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir.<br \/>\nM\u00fchim olan; bunu d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e yapabilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Ekonomik \u00e7\u0131kmazda,<br \/>\nDuygusal \u00e7\u0131kmazda,<br \/>\nSevgi \u00e7\u0131kmaz\u0131nda,<br \/>\nYa\u015famsal \u00e7\u0131kmazlarda tek s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kap\u0131d\u0131r ailemiz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Her t\u00fcrl\u00fc hay\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa ra\u011fmen\u2026 Kendisine inat onurla bizi kabul ederler.<br \/>\nGizli a\u011flamalara ve gizli \u00f6zlemlerine ra\u011fmen, yeniden bulmu\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na bizlere sahip \u00e7\u0131kmalar\u0131n\u0131n ad\u0131 yoktur, kendi benzerleri i\u00e7erisinde\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Zamana inat dayan\u0131rlar\u2026<br \/>\nDayanman\u0131n kuvveti; yeniden bulu\u015fmad\u0131r, ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131 bize b\u0131rakmak kayd\u0131yla\u2026<br \/>\nOnlar\u0131 bu kadar yok saymaya de\u011fer ne olabilir hayat\u0131m\u0131zda\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bizlerin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce fakirli\u011finden ba\u015fka\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a title=\"M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan\" href=\"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/haber\/yazarlar\/muslum-gulhan\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Yazar\u0131n t\u00fcm yaz\u0131lar\u0131na g\u00f6zat \u00bb<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.wts.com.tr\/2010-dunya-kupasi-biletleri.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"fifa-2010-banner\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/fifa-2010-banner.png\" alt=\"fifa-2010-banner\" width=\"610\" height=\"144\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Erkek olman\u0131n baz\u0131 dayan\u0131lmaz yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131 olmakla beraber; cinsiyet ayr\u0131m\u0131 yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman bile ayn\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r; aileyi iplememe\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192211,"featured_media":29867,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6774,6155,6194],"tags":[11339,195969,11340],"class_list":["post-10869","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-futbol","category-gundem","category-spor","tag-hayat-yazilari","tag-muslum-gulhan","tag-yasam-yazilari"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10869","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192211"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10869"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10869\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29867"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10869"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10869"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10869"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}