{"id":139034,"date":"2013-06-18T14:00:03","date_gmt":"2013-06-18T11:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/?p=139034"},"modified":"2022-09-18T10:42:50","modified_gmt":"2022-09-18T07:42:50","slug":"betul-arimdan-anlamli-mektup-139034","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/betul-arimdan-anlamli-mektup-139034\/","title":{"rendered":"Bet\u00fcl Ar\u0131m’dan anlaml\u0131 mektup"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"betul-arim-anlamli-mektup\"<\/a>H\u00fck\u00fcmetin Gezi Park\u0131 eylemlerinden sorumlu tuttu\u011fu Memet Ali Alabora’n\u0131n annesi Bet\u00fcl Ar\u0131m, tepkisini yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 mektupla dile getirdi.<\/h1>\n

\u0130\u015fte Bet\u00fcl Ar\u0131m\u2019\u0131n mektubu<\/p>\n

\u201cNEDEN?\u201d
\nSosyal medyay\u0131 \u00e7ok kullanan biri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan, olaylar\u0131 29 May\u0131s \u00c7ar\u015famba g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6\u011frendim. \u0130\u015ften \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p \u00d6zel E\u011fitim ve Rehabilitasyon Merkezi\u2019ndeki bir geceye, \u00f6d\u00fcl almak i\u00e7in kat\u0131ld\u0131m ve oradan 22:30 gibi Gezi Park\u0131\u2019na gittim. Daha \u00e7ok gen\u00e7lerden olu\u015fan, \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen, halay \u00e7eken, muhabbet eden \u00e7ok g\u00fczel insanlarla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. A\u011fa\u00e7lar\u0131 korumak i\u00e7in biber gaz\u0131na maruz kald\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 duydu\u011fumda ger\u00e7ekten inanamad\u0131m ve hep \u015funu sordum;<\/p>\n

\u201cNEDEN, NEDEN?\u201d<\/p>\n

Ben do\u011fadan beslenen, yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olan her \u015feyle bir oldu\u011fumuza ve aram\u0131zda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez ipliklerin oldu\u011funa ve her \u015feyle, a\u011fa\u00e7la, \u00e7i\u00e7ekle, b\u00f6cekle akraba oldu\u011fumuza inanan, g\u00fcn a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 pir parka ya da ormana giden (Belgrad, Emirgan, Y\u0131ld\u0131z, Taksim, Hidiv-Selami\u00e7e\u015fme, G\u00f6ztepe, Ma\u00e7ka, Beykoz, nereye yak\u0131nsam\u2026), a\u011faca sar\u0131lan, s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131 dayayan, topra\u011fa basan ve randevular\u0131n\u0131 ve hatta baz\u0131 TV \u00e7ekimlerini parklarda ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren biri olarak; bir tek a\u011fac\u0131n bile kesilmesini sanki akrabam\u0131 kesmi\u015fler gibi hisseden ve bunun i\u00e7in a\u011flayan, ayn\u0131 zamanda \u015fiddete, bask\u0131ya ve dayatmaya kar\u015f\u0131 biri olarak i\u015ften kalan vakitlerimde Gezi Park\u0131\u2019na gittim.
\nBu arada o\u011flumun tehdit mesajlar\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 duydu\u011fumda inanamad\u0131m ve yine sordum;<\/p>\n

\u201cNEDEN, NEDEN?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u0130\u00e7inde sevgi bar\u0131nan biri i\u00e7in b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya bir aileydi benim i\u00e7in. Demek ki aile \u00fcyelerinden baz\u0131lar\u0131 sevgiyle b\u00fcy\u00fcmemi\u015flerdi. Olsun, ben yine de \u201cYarad\u0131lan\u0131 severim Yaradan\u2019dan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc\u201d dedim. Endi\u015felendim ama korkmad\u0131m, nas\u0131l olsa zamanla her \u015fey anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Ta ki, Yeni \u015eafak gazetesinde \u00e7\u0131kan habere kadar\u2026 Okudum, alg\u0131layamad\u0131m, inanamad\u0131m, \u201cYok art\u0131k, bu kadar da olamaz\u201d dedim. Ama olmu\u015ftu, yaz\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcmdeydi ve o\u011flum hedef g\u00f6steriliyordu.<\/p>\n

Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 yazan bir kad\u0131nm\u0131\u015f ama eminim anne de\u011fil. Anne olsayd\u0131, bu, r\u00fcyamda g\u00f6rsem inanamayaca\u011f\u0131m yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yazamazd\u0131. Anne olsayd\u0131, mutlaka empati yapard\u0131. K\u0131z\u0131lderili atas\u00f6z\u00fc der ki; \u201cBir insan hakk\u0131nda tek bir kelime etmeden, tek bir yarg\u0131da bulunmadan, g\u00f6kte 3 ay de\u011fi\u015fene kadar onun ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131yla dola\u015f.\u201d Belli ki \u201c\u00c7amur at izi kals\u0131n\u201d demi\u015fti ama, Memet Ali\u2019yi hi\u00e7 tan\u0131madan\u2026 Onu tan\u0131yanlar\u0131n hepsine sorsa (\u00f6zellikle hepsine yazd\u0131m), izi kalmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n

 <\/p>\n

Onu ben do\u011furdum ama Halil Cibran\u2019\u0131n \u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u201d \u015fiirinde oldu\u011fu gibi, onu evrenin \u00e7ocu\u011fu olarak b\u00fcy\u00fctmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n

O benim sadece o\u011flum de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7ok sayg\u0131 duydu\u011fum, \u00e7ok de\u011fer verdi\u011fim, \u00f6\u011frettiklerimin belki 50 kat\u0131n\u0131 ondan \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fim bir birey.<\/p>\n

\u0130zi kalmaz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc Memet Ali, inan\u0131n anne olarak s\u00f6ylemiyorum, hayat\u0131mda tan\u0131\u011f\u0131m en \u015feffaf, en \u201cinsan\u201d insanlardan biridir. Di\u011fer \u00f6zelliklerini ben de\u011fil, ba\u015fkalar\u0131 s\u00f6ylesin.
\nBana nerdeyse her g\u00fcn ya bir telefon gelir ya da yolda \u00e7evirirler, onunla bir \u015fekilde tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f olanlar \u201cB\u00f6yle bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu nas\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fcn, s\u0131rr\u0131 nedir?\u201d diye sorarlar.
\nD\u00fcn bir arkada\u015f\u0131m telefon etti, \u201c\u015eu anda Ba\u015fbakan o\u011flunu su\u00e7lad\u0131.\u201d dedi. Ben \u201cYok can\u0131m yanl\u0131\u015f duymu\u015fsundur, olur mu hi\u00e7 \u00f6yle \u015fey? Bir \u00fclkenin ba\u015fbakan\u0131 hi\u00e7 tan\u0131madan, ara\u015ft\u0131rmadan bir insan\u0131, bir genci, bir sanat\u00e7\u0131y\u0131 su\u00e7lar m\u0131? O da bir annenin evlad\u0131, \u00f6nce annesini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, bunun vebali \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr.\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n

Benim i\u00e7im her konuda rahat, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o\u011flumu biliyor ve tan\u0131yorum. Ama yar\u0131n bu durumdan vazife \u00e7\u0131karan biri olursa, o\u011flumu su\u00e7layanlar \u00f6nce Yaradan\u2019a, sonra kendine, topluma ve d\u00fcnyaya bunun hesab\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l verecekler? Bu \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir g\u00fcnah de\u011fil mi? Sadece, bir fidan nas\u0131l yeti\u015fir, herkese bunu sormak isterim. Fidan yeti\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in anne olmaya gerek yok, bunu anlayabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Ama \u00e7ocu\u011fu hayati tehlike i\u00e7inde olan bir annenin ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, hayk\u0131r\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sadece anneler bilir.
\nY\u00fcre\u011fim ac\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Bet\u00fcl ARIM<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

H\u00fck\u00fcmetin Gezi Park\u0131 eylemlerinden sorumlu tuttu\u011fu Memet Ali Alabora’n\u0131n annesi Bet\u00fcl Ar\u0131m, tepkisini yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 mektupla dile getirdi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":178722,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6155,6232,5005,6202,6662],"tags":[23171,92829,98684,132432,3805,131123,14663],"class_list":["post-139034","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem","category-magazin","category-manset","category-politika","category-yasam","tag-1-mayis-taksim","tag-gezi-parki","tag-memet-ali-alabora","tag-memet-ali-alabora-gezi-parki","tag-taksim","tag-taksim-gezi","tag-taksim-gezi-parki"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139034","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=139034"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139034\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/178722"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=139034"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=139034"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=139034"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}