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Bir bebe\u011fin d\u00fcnyaya gelmesinin anlam\u0131n\u0131 anne ve babadan daha iyi bilen olamaz.<\/p>\n
\u201cM\u00fcjde bir o\u011flunuz oldu\u201d ya da \u201cM\u00fcjde bir k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u201d c\u00fcmlesinin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 veremezsiniz….<\/p>\n
Art\u0131k bir canl\u0131n\u0131n sorumlulu\u011fu sizdedir. Tertemiz, saf, \u00f6\u011frenmeye ve ya\u015famaya odakl\u0131 bir canl\u0131…<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015fte her \u015fey bu noktadan sonra ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n
\u00dclkemizdeki erkek \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin sorumlulu\u011fu her zaman babaya kalmaktad\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk baba kadar ya\u015fama ba\u015flar. Sonras\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk e\u011filimlerde kendini farkl\u0131 bir birey ortaya koyar.<\/p>\n
\u201cG\u00f6ster o\u011flum amcalara pipini\u201d ile \u201cO\u011flum amcalara merhaba demeyecek-misin\u201d aras\u0131nda ince bir k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7izgi vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Genelde \u201cpipi\u201d kazan\u0131r.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcm vicdanlar\u0131n sat\u0131n al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve sadece karanl\u0131k bir ortam\u0131n kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fclkede, karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n sorgulanmas\u0131 yerine, karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sundu\u011fu vicdans\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklara \u00f6\u011freterek onlar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctmek; bir bebekten katil yaratman\u0131n nedenini olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n
\u015eiddet baban\u0131n elinde e\u011fitim format\u0131 olur…<\/p>\n
\u0130nan\u00e7, parti ve tutulan tak\u0131m\u0131n kutsall\u0131klar\u0131 kendine g\u00f6re savunma mekanizmalar\u0131 olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n
Bu kutsall\u0131klar \u00f6lmek ve \u00f6ld\u00fcrmek kadar etkilidir.<\/p>\n
Baba ile ili\u015fkinin \u015fiddet boyutunu \u00e7ocuk babas\u0131nda bu kutsall\u0131klar ad\u0131na bizzat g\u00f6rmesiyle ilk farkl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015far.<\/p>\n
\u201cKoyduk mu…\u201d, \u201chepiniz o… \u00e7ocu\u011fusunuz\u201d, \u201c \u00f6lmeye geldik\u201d ile tak\u0131m tutman\u0131n ne oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenir.<\/p>\n
Babalar isminden \u00f6nce tak\u0131m\u0131n ismini s\u00f6yleyerek ona, \u201cma\u00e7o\u201d hayat\u0131 tatt\u0131r\u0131r…<\/p>\n
Hayat\u0131n\u0131n renkleri onun iradesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda babas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan ona zorla verilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuk kimlik bunal\u0131m\u0131na girer!<\/p>\n
\u015eiddeti yava\u015f yava\u015f anlamaya ba\u015flar \u00e7ocuk…<\/p>\n
Fakat…<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuk ilk olarak annesine uygulanmas\u0131 ile y\u00fczle\u015fir! Bu travma art\u0131k \u00e7ocu\u011fun k\u00f6t\u00fc e\u011fitim tacizine maruz kalmas\u0131ndan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n
Almodovar\u2019\u0131n \u201cK\u00f6t\u00fc E\u011fitim\u201d filmindeki kahramanlar gibi katillerle masumlar s\u00fcrekli yer de\u011fi\u015ftirmiyor, katil hep ayn\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Baban\u0131n rol modeli tavr\u0131 ona ya\u015fam\u0131n sadece bundan ibaret oldu\u011funu empoze eder.<\/p>\n
1400 y\u0131ld\u0131r kad\u0131n\u0131 \u015feytanla\u015ft\u0131ran zihniyet, anneyi \u00e7aresiz b\u0131rakarak, erkek \u00e7ocu\u011fun baban\u0131n \u015fiddet d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ine gitmesine neden olur.<\/p>\n
Erke\u011fin ya\u015fam\u0131 annenin avu\u00e7lar\u0131ndan kay\u0131p gider. Korumas\u0131z ve \u00e7aresiz sunulan kabul etmesi sonu\u00e7ta babadan t\u00fcretilen insan modelini ortaya koyar.<\/p>\n
Baban\u0131n \u015fiddeti eninde sonunda \u00e7ocu\u011fa yans\u0131yacakt\u0131r. Baban\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fc ve kontrol\u00fc kaybetmeme anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131; \u00e7ocu\u011fun baba kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda emir eri haline getirir.<\/p>\n
Sistemin aray\u0131p da bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu erkek modeli art\u0131k korunmas\u0131 gereken bir ara\u00e7 haline gelmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
Sat\u0131n al\u0131nan vicdanlar sonucunda yarat\u0131lan bu tek tip erkek modelleri onlar\u0131n vicdans\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n askerleri haline gelirler.<\/p>\n
Babas\u0131n\u0131n tuttu\u011fu tak\u0131m gibi, sistem de onun ya\u015fam g\u00fcvencesi olur ve onu korumak \u00f6lmek ve \u00f6ld\u00fcrmekle ayn\u0131 anlam\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131maktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Tabii ki y\u0131llarca bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f duygular\u0131n ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 tam bir canl\u0131-bomba etkisi ile etraf\u0131ndaki herkesi yok eder.<\/p>\n
Ona \u00f6\u011fretilen en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 kad\u0131nlar oldu\u011funu bilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc babas\u0131n\u0131n annesini d\u00f6vmesi ile bunu \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
O da kar\u0131s\u0131na bunun g\u00fcncel ko\u015fullardaki beklentileri kar\u015f\u0131layacak \u015fekilde uygular!<\/p>\n
Sistemin toplumu kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinden dizayn etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 onun i\u00e7in bir nimettir. \u0130\u015fledi\u011fi her kad\u0131n cinayetinin, her tecav\u00fcz\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u201ciyi hal\u201d ve \u201ctaktir\u201d hakk\u0131n\u0131n ondan yana kullan\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilir.<\/p>\n
Onun i\u00e7in \u201cBerlin’de yarg\u0131\u00e7lar var\u201d c\u00fcmlesinin gerek\u00e7esi yoktur, onun i\u00e7in onu koruyacak Ankara’da abileri vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Genetik kodlama bitmi\u015ftir art\u0131k.<\/p>\n
Bunlar\u0131n hepsi ayn\u0131 zihniyetin \u00fcr\u00fcnleridir.<\/p>\n
\u00d6zgecan ile Nuh\u2019u \u00f6ld\u00fcren zihniyet.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan \/ NationalTurk<\/strong><\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" NationalTurk yorumcusu M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan’\u0131n ‘Bir bebekten katil yaratmak art\u0131k \u00e7ok kolay’ ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192211,"featured_media":206589,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6155,5005,6202,6805],"tags":[195969,10061,184785,184592],"class_list":["post-206584","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem","category-manset","category-politika","category-turkiye","tag-muslum-gulhan","tag-nationalturk","tag-nuh-koklu","tag-ozgecan-aslan"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/206584","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192211"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=206584"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/206584\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/206589"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=206584"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=206584"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=206584"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}