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Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ad\u0131na fetva veren kurum olarak bilinen, \u2019Din \u0130\u015fleri Y\u00fcksek Kurulu Dini Bilgilendirme Platformu\u2019nun, \u00e7e\u015fitli kesimlerden y\u00f6neltilen “Ni\u015fanl\u0131lar\u0131n rahat g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015febilmek i\u00e7in nik\u00e2h k\u0131ymalar\u0131 uygun mudur?” sorusuna verdi\u011fi yan\u0131t, web sitesinde yay\u0131nland\u0131. Evlenmeyi di\u011fer akitlerden ay\u0131ran \u00f6zelliklerden birinin, bu akitten \u00f6nce genellikle bir ni\u015fanlanma d\u00f6neminin ge\u00e7irilmesi oldu\u011funun ifade edildi\u011fi yan\u0131tta, taraflar\u0131n bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u00e7inde birbirlerini daha iyi tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 hediyeler al\u0131n\u0131p verildi\u011fi hat\u0131rlat\u0131larak \u015f\u00f6yle denildi:<\/p>\n
“Bu d\u00f6nemde ni\u015fanl\u0131lar\u0131n mahremiyet \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerini g\u00f6zetmek kayd\u0131yla birbirlerini daha yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131mak amac\u0131yla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp konu\u015fmalar\u0131nda bir sak\u0131nca yoktur. Fakat ni\u015fanl\u0131lar\u0131n fl\u00f6rt etmeleri, dost hayat\u0131 ya\u015famalar\u0131, dedikoduya mahal verecek \u015fekilde ba\u015f ba\u015fa kalmalar\u0131, el ele tutu\u015fmalar\u0131 ve benzeri \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n onaylamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flardan uzak durmalar\u0131 gerekir. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde gen\u00e7ler, gerek velilerinden izinsiz olarak gerekse velilerin bilgisi dahilinde ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6neminde g\u00fcya dini hassasiyetleri g\u00f6zetmek amac\u0131yla, ‘dini nik\u00e2h\u2019 yapmakta ve sonu\u00e7ta hi\u00e7 de arzu edilmeyen \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc hadiseler meydana gelmektedir. Bu t\u00fcr olaylar\u0131n ya\u015fanmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan nik\u00e2h akitlerin mutlaka kay\u0131t alt\u0131na al\u0131n\u0131p hukuki g\u00fcvenceye kavu\u015fturulmas\u0131 gerekir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc dindar oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyen gen\u00e7ler veya aileleri, resmi tescilin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumlarda \u00e7ok kere, aralar\u0131nda akdedildi\u011fi ifade edilen akitlerin gere\u011fini yerine getirmemekte, taraflardan biri ve genellikle k\u0131z taraf\u0131 ma\u011fdur duruma d\u00fc\u015fmektedir. B\u00f6ylece, dinimizin nikahtan g\u00f6zetti\u011fi ulvi gaye ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmek \u015f\u00f6yle dursun, insanlar din ad\u0131na birbirlerine zulmeder hale gelmektedirler.”<\/p>\n
Din \u0130\u015fleri Y\u00fcksek Kurulu Dini Bilgilendirme Platformu, nik\u00e2h k\u0131y\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda dinen evlilik hayat\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131, kar\u0131-koca aras\u0131nda mehir (\u0130slam hukukunda erke\u011fin evlenirken kad\u0131na verdi\u011fi\/vermeyi taahh\u00fct etti\u011fi para veya mal), nafaka, miras gibi bir tak\u0131m haklar ve sorumluluklar\u0131n tahakkuk etti\u011fini hat\u0131rlatarak, ayr\u0131ca \u015fu ifadelere yer verdi:<\/p>\n
“G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde bu haklar, evlilik resmen tescil ettirilmeksizin korunamad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, evlenecek ki\u015filerin ‘resmi nik\u00e2h\u2019 k\u0131y\u0131lmadan ‘dini nik\u00e2h\u2019 k\u0131yd\u0131rmalar\u0131 dinen uygun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi kanunen de yasakt\u0131r. Bu itibarla, adaylar\u0131n \u0130slami \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclere riayet ederek ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6nemini ge\u00e7irmeleri, evlenmeye kesin karar vermedik\u00e7e resmi olarak kayda ge\u00e7irilsin veya ge\u00e7irilmesin, nikah\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmemeleri uygun olur.”<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Din \u0130\u015fleri Y\u00fcksek Kurulu Dini Bilgilendirme Platformu, evlenme haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131 yapan ni\u015fanl\u0131 \u00e7iftlerin el ele tutu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n, ba\u015f ba\u015fa kalmas\u0131n\u0131n dine uygun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iddia etti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":224017,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6155,5005,6805],"tags":[184546,52198,184543,184544,184545],"class_list":["post-224015","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem","category-manset","category-turkiye","tag-dini-nikah","tag-diyanet","tag-diyanet-fetva","tag-diyanet-fetvalari","tag-diyanet-nisanli-fetvasi"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224015","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=224015"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224015\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/224017"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=224015"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=224015"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=224015"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}