{"id":228996,"date":"2016-03-30T10:08:54","date_gmt":"2016-03-30T07:08:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/?p=228996"},"modified":"2019-03-28T12:20:09","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T09:20:09","slug":"yalnizlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/yalnizlik\/","title":{"rendered":"Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k…"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"ErsinSportif alanda zihinsel performans antren\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yapan NationalTurk yorumcusu Ersin Afacan\u2019\u0131n \u2018Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k\u2019 ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131;<\/h1>\n

Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde \u0130ngiltere\u2019deki London School of Economics ve Singapur\u2019daki Singapore Management \u00dcniversitesi taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan ortak bir ara\u015ft\u0131rma, zeki insanlar\u0131n mutlu olmak i\u00e7in daha az arkada\u015fa ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funu ortaya koydu. Satoshi Kanazawa ve Norman Li liderli\u011findeki ara\u015ft\u0131rma kapsam\u0131nda, \u201cHayat\u0131 insanlar i\u00e7in daha ya\u015fan\u0131l\u0131r k\u0131lan ne?\u201d<\/strong> sorusuna cevap bulmak amac\u0131yla, 18-28 ya\u015f aras\u0131 15 bin ki\u015fiyle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirildi. Sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 psikoloji dergisi \u201cBritish Journal of Psychology\u201dde yay\u0131mlanan ara\u015ft\u0131rma, iki \u00f6nemli bulguyu ortaya koydu. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya g\u00f6re n\u00fcfus yo\u011funlu\u011fu az olan b\u00f6lgelerde ya\u015fayan insanlar, kalabal\u0131k yerlerde ya\u015fayanlara oranla daha mutlu oluyor. Ayn\u0131 zamanda, sosyal ili\u015fkiler artt\u0131k\u00e7a da baz\u0131 insanlar kendilerini daha mutlu hissediyor. Ancak ara\u015ft\u0131rma, \u00f6zellikle zeki insanlar i\u00e7in sosyal ili\u015fkilerde bu durumun ge\u00e7erli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ortaya koydu. Zekilerin aksine, IQ\u2019su d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck olanlar\u0131n kalabal\u0131klar i\u00e7inde kendisini daha mutlu hissetti\u011fi belirlendi. Yani di\u011fer bir deyi\u015fle, sosyal ili\u015fkiler artt\u0131k\u00e7a zeki insanlar\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu da azal\u0131yor<\/strong> (1).<\/p>\n

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Bu ara\u015ft\u0131rma bana, Nietzsche’nin ilk ak\u0131l hocas\u0131 olan 1788-1860 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olan Alman filozof Arthur Schopenhauer\u2019\u0131n \u201cYaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 besleyen, Aristokrat bir duygudur. B\u00fct\u00fcn serseriler arkada\u015f canl\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d<\/strong> ifadesini hat\u0131rlatt\u0131 (2). Bu ifadenin ve yukar\u0131daki ara\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n sporla ve \u00f6zellikle profesyonel sporla yak\u0131ndan ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131 var. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc spor, sosyal bir olgudur ve profesyonel dedi\u011fimiz elit sporcular da sosyal bir fenomendir. Bu nedenle sporcular\u0131n yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7mesi \u00e7ok zor bir durumdur. Fakat sporcular\u0131n \u015f\u00f6hretin etkisine kap\u0131l\u0131p arkada\u015f canl\u0131s\u0131 olmas\u0131, hayranlar\u0131n\u0131n ilgisine ihtiya\u00e7 duymas\u0131 ve s\u00fcrekli kendisinden olumlu \u015fekilde bahsedilmesini istemesi \u00e7ok yanl\u0131\u015f bir mental tutumdur.
\nGer\u00e7ekte insanlar\u0131n bizden ho\u015flanmalar\u0131 o kadar da \u00f6nemli de\u011fildir. Sadece sevdi\u011fimiz, birlikte ya\u015famak ve birlikte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak zorunda oldu\u011fumuz, iyi bir izlenim b\u0131rakman\u0131n faydal\u0131 oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlar\u0131n bizden ho\u015flanmalar\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir. Buna ra\u011fmen, nevrotik bireyler sanki varl\u0131klar\u0131, mutluluklar\u0131 ve g\u00fcvenlikleri ho\u015flan\u0131l\u0131yor olmaya ba\u011fl\u0131ym\u0131\u015f gibi bir duygu ta\u015f\u0131r ve bu \u015fekilde davran\u0131r (3). Psikolog Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu\u2019nun da ifade etti\u011fi gibi kendi benli\u011fini de\u011ferli g\u00f6ren ve kendine g\u00fcveni y\u00fcksek olan kimselerin, ba\u015fkalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan be\u011fenilmeye ihtiyac\u0131 daha azd\u0131r (2). Bu nedenle arkada\u015f canl\u0131s\u0131 olmak, hem serseri hem de nevrotik bir tutumdur.<\/p>\n

Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla ba\u015fta pop\u00fcler sporcular olmak \u00fczere sporun i\u00e7inde olan insanlar, bazen yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015famal\u0131d\u0131r. Bunu yaparak hem i\u00e7sel de\u011ferlendirme i\u00e7ine girerler hem de kitap okumak, film seyretmek ve m\u00fczik dinlemek gibi hobileri ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirme f\u0131rsat\u0131 bulurlar. Ayr\u0131ca arkada\u015f canl\u0131s\u0131 olmadan size \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutacak ve yol g\u00f6sterecek \u00f6zelliklere sahip olan ki\u015fileri hayat\u0131n\u0131za dahil etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z \u201czihnimizi ba\u015fkalar\u0131na teslim etmek\u201d<\/strong> dedi\u011fimiz mental tuzaktan da kendinizi koruman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n

Ersin Afacan \/ NationalTurk<\/strong>
\nKAYNAK\u00c7A
\n(1)http:\/\/www.ntv.com.tr\/saglik\/zeki-insanlarin-daha-az-arkadasi-var,KY_TgpNJ60i4tmxXS8HU_A
\n(2) Afacan, Ersin; Sportif Ya\u015fama Y\u00f6n Veren 200 \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6z, Demfo, \u0130zmir-2014
\n(3) Horney, Karen; \u00c7a\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n Nevrotik Ki\u015fili\u011fi, \u00c7ev.;Ba\u015fak K\u0131c\u0131r, Sel Yay\u0131nc\u0131l\u0131k, \u0130stanbul-2013<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sportif alanda zihinsel performans antren\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yapan NationalTurk yorumcusu Ersin Afacan\u2019\u0131n \u2018Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k\u2019 ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131; Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde \u0130ngiltere\u2019deki London School of Economics ve Singapur\u2019daki Singapore Management \u00dcniversitesi taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan ortak bir ara\u015ft\u0131rma, zeki insanlar\u0131n mutlu olmak i\u00e7in daha az arkada\u015fa ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funu ortaya koydu. Satoshi Kanazawa ve Norman Li liderli\u011findeki ara\u015ft\u0131rma kapsam\u0131nda, \u201cHayat\u0131 insanlar i\u00e7in daha ya\u015fan\u0131l\u0131r …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192205,"featured_media":228998,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26554,5005],"tags":[38177,196010,32738,10061,88068],"class_list":["post-228996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-haftanin-yorumu","category-manset","tag-dogan-cuceloglu","tag-ersin-afacan","tag-ersin-afacan-yazilari","tag-nationalturk","tag-nietzsche"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/228996","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192205"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=228996"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/228996\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/228998"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=228996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=228996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=228996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}