{"id":241808,"date":"2016-11-11T11:21:03","date_gmt":"2016-11-11T08:21:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/?p=241808"},"modified":"2019-03-28T13:08:38","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T10:08:38","slug":"annemin-firlattigi-terlikler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/annemin-firlattigi-terlikler\/","title":{"rendered":"Annemin f\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 terlikler"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"mg-anasayfa\"NationalTurk yorumcusu M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan’\u0131n bu haftaki “Annemin F\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 Terlikler” ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131;<\/h1>\n

1966 y\u0131l\u0131nda Erzincan\u2019dan annem, d\u00f6rt karde\u015f ve iki denk ile (denklerin i\u00e7inde bir yatak, bir yorgan ve iki yast\u0131k vard\u0131r) yola \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p, \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcn s\u00fcren tren yolculu\u011funun sonras\u0131nda \u0130stanbul\u2019a gelmi\u015fiz.<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131n olmakla beraber, t\u00fcm dezavantajlar\u0131 toplayarak \u0130stanbul\u2019a gelen Hatice Han\u0131m ya\u015fam m\u00fccadelesine farkl\u0131 bir i\u00e7erikle ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Elektriksiz ve susuz bir gecekondu.<\/p>\n

Ya\u011fmur ya\u011fd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda evin i\u00e7inde a\u00e7\u0131lan kanallar!<\/p>\n

Ve i\u015f bulma gayretiyle d\u00f6rt k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011fun evde tek ba\u015flar\u0131na kalma riskini g\u00f6ze almas\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131n hi\u00e7bir g\u00fcvencesi olmamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, sadece kom\u015fular\u0131na g\u00fcven duymas\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in elinde tek bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolunun oldu\u011funa inanarak onlar\u0131 okutma \u00e7abas\u0131.<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7 e\u011fitim almam\u0131\u015f bir kad\u0131n\u0131n tek \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu olarak ve kurtulu\u015f yolu olarak e\u011fitime inanmas\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte annemin bize katt\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fer burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Annemin bizi iknas\u0131 her zaman davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla olmu\u015ftur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc annem eylem kad\u0131n\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bedeninin direnci ve kullanma becerisi onu farkl\u0131 k\u0131l\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n

Bizim i\u00e7in en \u00f6nemli g\u00fcvencemiz her \u015feye ve herkese kar\u015f\u0131 duru\u015fu ve hi\u00e7 geri \u00e7ekilmeden sonuna kadar gitmesiydi.<\/p>\n

Bizim i\u00e7in bir tanr\u0131\u00e7ayd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Namus ve kad\u0131n olma kavram\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde, ne bir dogmatik s\u00f6yleme, ne bir bez par\u00e7as\u0131na ne bir erkek s\u00f6ylemine mahal b\u0131rakmayacak \u015fekilde, kendi inan\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re \u00e7ok yal\u0131n ve olabildi\u011fince \u00f6zg\u00fcr olarak ya\u015fad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Onun ekonomik \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck kavram\u0131; T\u00fcrkiye\u2019deki \u00e7o\u011funluk gibi, erke\u011fi \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirme maliyeti olarak alg\u0131lamayarak ve de ekonomik \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck kavram\u0131n\u0131 bireysel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck olarak alg\u0131lamayarak, sadece ve sadece \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n e\u011fitimini ve ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcvence alt\u0131na alma maliyeti olarak alg\u0131lad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Annem \u00e7ok iyi biliyor ki; anneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in her fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapmay\u0131 g\u00f6ze al\u0131rken, babalar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu \u00f6nce kendi kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 giderirler ve sonra di\u011ferleri gelir<\/p>\n

Annemin bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 bizi sonsuza dek b\u0131rakmayaca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmekteydi ki; h\u00e2l\u00e2 devam ediyor.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte bu s\u00fcre\u00e7ten sonra annem, ben ve terli\u011fi aras\u0131nda ili\u015fki \u015fekillenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

B\u00fcy\u00fck ablam\u0131n anneme katk\u0131 yapmak i\u00e7in e\u011fitimini b\u0131rak\u0131p i\u015fe girmesi, bizler i\u00e7in ayr\u0131 bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f noktas\u0131 olmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

Abim zaten bilim insan\u0131 olarak ya\u015fam\u0131na devam ediyor, di\u011fer ablam da akademik ya\u015fam i\u00e7inde.<\/p>\n

Annemin s\u00fcreci do\u011fru y\u00f6netti\u011fi net.<\/p>\n

Bana gelince; e\u011fitim gayet iyi gitmesinin yan\u0131nda benim bir futbol tutkunlu\u011fum vard\u0131. Zaten terlik ve annem ile ili\u015fkim futbol sayesinde ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Okulda her teneff\u00fcs, okuldan sonra mahallede yar\u0131m g\u00fcn\u00fcn tamam\u0131nda, top oynama iste\u011fi bende futbolu tutku haline getirmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n

Camdan mutfa\u011fa girip bir par\u00e7a ekmek ve kat\u0131k ile gece ge\u00e7 saatlere kadar top oynama eylemi annemdeki sinir katsay\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli y\u00fckseltmeye neden oldu.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte o s\u00fcre\u00e7te; ya\u011fmurlu bir havada top oynayarak, tamam\u0131 \u00e7amur k\u0131yafetlerle eve d\u00f6nmede terlik maceras\u0131 ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Daha \u00f6nce belirtti\u011fim gibi, annem eylem kad\u0131n\u0131yd\u0131 ve bana kar\u015f\u0131 da terlik eylemini devreye sokarak, e\u011fitimimin sekteye u\u011framamas\u0131 i\u00e7in harekete ge\u00e7mi\u015fti ki art\u0131k tutana a\u015fk olsun.<\/p>\n

Terli\u011fin f\u0131rlat\u0131lma zaman dilimleri: Bir \u00f6devler yap\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f ve h\u00e2l\u00e2 sokakta top oynan\u0131rken ki annem sahay\u0131 basarak eyleme ge\u00e7erdi.<\/p>\n

\u0130ki, evin i\u00e7inde top oynay\u0131p cam veya e\u015fya k\u0131rma an\u0131nda.<\/p>\n

\u00dc\u00e7, gece ge\u00e7 saatlere kadar top oynama an\u0131nda terlik faaliyete ge\u00e7erdi.<\/p>\n

Eylem kad\u0131n\u0131 olman\u0131n avantaj\u0131 ile f\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 terliklerin isabet oran\u0131 y\u00fczde y\u00fczd\u00fc.<\/p>\n

\u0130nan\u0131l\u0131r gibi de\u011fil! Hi\u00e7 mi sektirmez bir insan.<\/p>\n

Tabii bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te benim de reflekslerim olduk\u00e7a geli\u015fti. Daha sonraki futbol hayat\u0131mda etkisi de k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenemez.<\/p>\n

As\u0131l kayg\u0131, e\u011fitimi b\u0131rak\u0131p, top pe\u015finde ko\u015fma iste\u011fimin olu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n endi\u015fesi annemi \u00e7ileden \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n

Tek ba\u015f\u0131na bir kad\u0131n\u0131n tek bildi\u011fi \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolunun t\u0131kanmas\u0131 veya sekteye u\u011frat\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n telafisi yoktu. Birikimleri sadece hayata kar\u015f\u0131 duru\u015ftan ve m\u00fccadeleden ibaretti.<\/p>\n

Terlikli eylem ise bu m\u00fccadelede ikna y\u00f6ntemiydi.<\/p>\n

Bir annenin \u00e7ocu\u011funa terlik f\u0131rlatmas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7eri\u011fi bencil bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin yans\u0131mas\u0131 olamaz, ancak evlat sevgisinden dolay\u0131, evlad\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc olma kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nleyici bir g\u00fc\u00e7 olur.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer kad\u0131n\u0131 ve ananeleri tart\u0131\u015facaksak, onlar\u0131n sokak ortas\u0131nda katledilmesini ve bunu yapan yarat\u0131klar\u0131n iyi hal indirimlerini konu\u015fmak gerek.<\/p>\n

Her \u015feyi esirgedi\u011finiz kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, alg\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya kar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fccadele ve m\u00fcdahale stratejilerini ele\u015ftirmek insanl\u0131k erdemlerinin sorgulanmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer cennet annelerin ayaklar\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131ndaysa, terlik de oradan gelmekte.<\/p>\n

M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan \u00a0\/ NationalTurk<\/strong><\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

NationalTurk yorumcusu M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan’\u0131n bu haftaki “Annemin F\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 Terlikler” ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131; 1966 y\u0131l\u0131nda Erzincan\u2019dan annem, d\u00f6rt karde\u015f ve iki denk ile (denklerin i\u00e7inde bir yatak, bir yorgan ve iki yast\u0131k vard\u0131r) yola \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p, \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcn s\u00fcren tren yolculu\u011funun sonras\u0131nda \u0130stanbul\u2019a gelmi\u015fiz. Kad\u0131n olmakla beraber, t\u00fcm dezavantajlar\u0131 toplayarak \u0130stanbul\u2019a gelen Hatice Han\u0131m ya\u015fam m\u00fccadelesine farkl\u0131 bir …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192211,"featured_media":241809,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26554,5005],"tags":[14617,1011,195969,10061],"class_list":["post-241808","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-haftanin-yorumu","category-manset","tag-erzincan","tag-istanbul","tag-muslum-gulhan","tag-nationalturk"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241808","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192211"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=241808"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241808\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/241809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=241808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=241808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=241808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}