K\u00fctahya Belediyesi yeni evlenen \u00e7iftlere e\u011fitim amac\u0131yla, bir d\u00f6nem Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00fcnyesinde din g\u00f6revlisi olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f Hasan \u00c7al\u0131\u015fkan’\u0131n kaleme ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 “Evlilik ve Aile Hayat\u0131” isimli kitab\u0131n\u0131 da\u011f\u0131t\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Kitab\u0131 b\u00fct\u00e7e g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerinde g\u00fcndeme getiren ve hakk\u0131nda soru\u015fturma talep eden CHP Kocaeli Milletvekili Fatma Kaplan H\u00fcrriyet, “Kad\u0131n\u0131 ikinci s\u0131n\u0131f g\u00f6ren, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layan, hatta \u2018Bu usullere uyulmazsa do\u011facak \u00e7ocuk ahmak olur\u2019, ‘Sevi\u015firken konu\u015fursan \u00e7ocu\u011fun kekeme olur’, ‘Kad\u0131n ev i\u015finde ve kocas\u0131n\u0131n hizmetini g\u00f6rmede maharetli olmal\u0131d\u0131r\u2019 gibi her \u015feyiyle erke\u011fin cinsel hayat\u0131 \u00fczerine kurgulanm\u0131\u015f, hurafelerle dolu bu kitab\u0131n tamam\u0131n\u0131 size okusam domates gibi k\u0131zar\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Yeni evli \u00e7iftlere nik\u00e2h\u0131n hemen ard\u0131ndan hediye edilen klavuz kitapta iddialara g\u00f6re, \u201c\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda kad\u0131n i\u015f yerinde kocas\u0131ndan daha yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 erke\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcrse g\u00f6nl\u00fc ona kayabilir, k\u0131rs\u0131n dizini otursun\u201d, \u201c\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131n kocas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 olan cinsel g\u00f6revini olumsuz etkiler\u201d, \u201cKocas\u0131 i\u00e7in s\u00fcslenmeyen, erke\u011fin reisli\u011fine itaat etmeyen kad\u0131n d\u00f6v\u00fclebilir, kad\u0131na evin hakimini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r, ila\u00e7 gibidir\u201d, \u201c\u00c7ok e\u015flilik yararl\u0131d\u0131r, hatta huysuz kar\u0131s\u0131 olan erkek kad\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015fay\u0131p ba\u015fka bir erke\u011fe bela etmek yerine, ikinci e\u015fi al\u0131p ilk e\u015fin rekabet duygular\u0131n\u0131 harekete ge\u00e7irip onu dize getirse daha iyi olmaz m\u0131\u201d, \u201cEvin erke\u011fi \u00f6fkelendi\u011finde evin han\u0131m\u0131 hemen susmal\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcr ve af dilemeli, kocas\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131zd\u0131rmamal\u0131\u201d gibi ifadeler yer al\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Meclis k\u00fcrs\u00fcs\u00fcnden AKP s\u0131ralar\u0131na kitab\u0131 g\u00f6steren H\u00fcrriyet, \u201cKad\u0131na davar muamelesi yapan, \u2018erkek ailenin \u00e7oban\u0131d\u0131r\u2019 denilen, ahlak, vicdan d\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir kitapt\u0131r bu. Okuduk\u00e7a t\u00fcylerim diken diken oldu. Kitap gerdek gecesinin detaylar\u0131ndan bahsediyor. Cinsel faydalanma hakk\u0131ndan, kocaya itaatten, \u2018iyi kad\u0131n itaatkar oland\u0131r\u2019 diyen, kocadan habersiz kad\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kamamas\u0131ndan, kocas\u0131 d\u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde i\u015fveli k\u0131yafetler giyip, kocas\u0131na kahve g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcp g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc almas\u0131ndan bahsediyor. Bu kitaba g\u00f6re kad\u0131n fazla \u015fikayet etmemeli\u201d diyerek kitab\u0131 \u2018sap\u0131k fantezi kitab\u0131\u2019 olarak de\u011ferlendirdi.<\/p>\n
Evrensel’den Gizem \u00d6rnek’in haberine g\u00f6re, K\u00fctahya Belediyesi\u2019nin da\u011f\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu kitap, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 \u201caile i\u00e7i ge\u00e7imsizli\u011fin en b\u00fcy\u00fck nedeni\u201d oldu\u011funu iddia ediyor. Kitapta kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcleyen korkun\u00e7 ifadelerden baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle:<\/p>\n
– \u00c7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda kad\u0131n i\u015f yerinde kocas\u0131ndan daha yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 erke\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcrse g\u00f6nl\u00fc ona kayabilir, k\u0131rs\u0131n dizini otursun.
\n– Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 faydas\u0131zd\u0131r.
\n– Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ailede krize neden olur.
\n– \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan her iki kad\u0131ndan biri tacize u\u011frar, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131n kocas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 olan cinsel g\u00f6revini olumsuz etkiler.
\n– Kad\u0131n ev i\u015finde ve kocas\u0131n\u0131n hizmetini g\u00f6rmede maharetli olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
AKP’li K\u00fctahya Belediyesi’nin da\u011f\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131 “Evlilik ve Aile Hayat\u0131” adl\u0131 kitapta kad\u0131nlara skandal \u00f6neriler veriliyor. K\u00fctahya Belediyesi yeni evlenen \u00e7iftlere e\u011fitim amac\u0131yla, bir d\u00f6nem Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00fcnyesinde din g\u00f6revlisi olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f Hasan \u00c7al\u0131\u015fkan’\u0131n kaleme ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 “Evlilik ve Aile Hayat\u0131” isimli kitab\u0131n\u0131 da\u011f\u0131t\u0131yor. Kitab\u0131 b\u00fct\u00e7e g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerinde g\u00fcndeme getiren ve hakk\u0131nda soru\u015fturma talep eden CHP Kocaeli Milletvekili …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":243466,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6700,6155,5005,6805],"tags":[9476,13993,40548],"class_list":["post-243465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile","category-gundem","category-manset","category-turkiye","tag-akp","tag-kutahya","tag-kutahya-belediyesi"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243465","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=243465"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243465\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/243466"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=243465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=243465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=243465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}