{"id":251110,"date":"2017-06-08T09:06:25","date_gmt":"2017-06-08T06:06:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/?p=251110"},"modified":"2019-03-28T12:13:55","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T09:13:55","slug":"arda-turan-ve-incinme-ile-zarar-gorme-farki","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/arda-turan-ve-incinme-ile-zarar-gorme-farki\/","title":{"rendered":"Arda Turan ve \u0130ncinme ile Zarar G\u00f6rme Fark\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-251039\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/ersin-afacan.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"88\" height=\"115\" title=\"\">Sportif alanda zihinsel performans antren\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yapan NationalTurk yorumcusu Ersin Afacan\u2019\u0131n &#8220;Arda Turan ve \u0130ncinme ile Zarar G\u00f6rme Fark\u0131&#8221; ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131;<\/h2>\n<p>Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde, A Milli Tak\u0131m oyuncular\u0131n\u0131 \u0130talya&#8217;ya g\u00f6t\u00fcren u\u00e7akta olay \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Arda Turan, Milliyet Gazetesi yazar\u0131 Bilal Me\u015fe&#8217;ye EURO-2016 s\u0131ras\u0131ndaki yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 haberler ve \u00f6zellikle prim konusunda yazd\u0131klar\u0131 nedeniyle hakaret ve k\u00fcf\u00fcr edip fiziksel sald\u0131r\u0131da bulundu. G\u00fcnlerce spor g\u00fcndemimizi me\u015fgul eden bu olay\u0131 analiz etmek istiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar, son zamanlarda ayr\u0131cal\u0131klar\u0131 haklarla, tarafs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6znellikle, istemeyi ihtiya\u00e7 duymakla, fiyat\u0131 de\u011ferle, zenginli\u011fi ba\u015far\u0131yla, kayg\u0131y\u0131 hastal\u0131kla ve ayn\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u015fitlikle kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor. B\u00f6yle bir durum i\u00e7inde insanlar, <strong>incinme ve zarar verme aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131<\/strong> g\u00f6z ard\u0131 ederek kendilerine ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131na gereksiz ac\u0131lar \u00e7ektiriyor. Ki\u015fisel ve toplumsal cehaletin bedeli de \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck oluyor. \u0130nsanlar, incinme ile zarar vermeyi birbirine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebilirse ve incinmekten kendilerini uzak tutabilirlerse kayg\u0131lardan ve zararlardan korunabilirler. (1)<\/p>\n<p>Bu fark\u0131n temelinde, zarar\u0131n fiziksel (maddi) ve incinmenin duygusal bir durum oldu\u011funu bilmemiz gerekmektedir. Yani iradeniz d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda zarar g\u00f6rebilirsiniz ama iradeniz d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda incinmezsiniz. \u00d6rne\u011fin sizden bor\u00e7 alan birisi borcunu \u00f6demezse zarar g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Bu durum iradeniz d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r. Fakat siz bu duruma \u201captal yerine konuldum\u201d tarz\u0131nda yorumlar getirirseniz incinmeyi kabul etmi\u015f olursunuz. Yani iradeniz d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda zarar g\u00f6rebilirsiniz ama iradeniz d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda incinemezsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu felsefeden yola \u00e7\u0131karak sporun i\u00e7indeki insanlara, bir ele\u015ftirinin veya hakaretin veya k\u00fcf\u00fcr\u00fcn fiziksel sald\u0131r\u0131ya ge\u00e7mek gibi bir misilleme i\u00e7in hakl\u0131 bir sebep olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmek gerekir. Ayr\u0131ca sporun i\u00e7indeki insanlara, s\u00f6zlerle incinmelerini \u00f6nleyebilmek i\u00e7in onlar\u0131n kendilerine ait ahlaki bir \u00f6z de\u011fer geli\u015ftirmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak gerekir. B\u00f6ylece ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n onlar hakk\u0131ndaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri ve s\u00f6yledikleri, kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri ve hayatlar\u0131nda \u00f6nemli olan insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinden daha az \u00f6nemli olacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6yle bir zihinsel tutum, mental antrenman sayesinde \u00f6\u011frenilir.<\/p>\n<p>Arda Turan gibi T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin futbol tarihinin en kariyerli futbolcusunun daha profesyonelce ya\u015famas\u0131, olaylara ve ki\u015filere verece\u011fi tepki, imaj\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirme ad\u0131na yapaca\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar, mental antrenman\u0131n konular\u0131ndan biridir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla Arda Turan ve di\u011fer profesyonel futbolcular ve hatta b\u00fct\u00fcn yar\u0131\u015fmac\u0131 sporcular, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimleri i\u00e7in onlara mental destek verecek ki\u015filerle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mental destek almak profesyonel bir elit sporcu olman\u0131n gereklerindendir. \u00d6zellikle bizim gibi \u00e7arp\u0131k spor k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne sahip \u00fclkenin sporcular\u0131n\u0131n saha d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda s\u0131radan de\u011fil de farkl\u0131 ve etkili bir profesyonel olmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in mental destek almalar\u0131 \u015fart.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda Arda Turan\u2019\u0131n tak\u0131m arkada\u015f\u0131 Harvard\u2019da y\u00fcksek lisansa ba\u015flad\u0131. Barcelona\u2019daki futbol kariyerini sonland\u0131rd\u0131ktan sonra Katalan ekibine ba\u015fkan olmak istedi\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131klayan Pique bu y\u00f6ndeki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Kral Kupas\u0131 zaferinin ard\u0131ndan Amerika\u2019ya u\u00e7an ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oyuncu Harvard\u2019dan bir foto\u011fraf payla\u015ft\u0131. Pique, reklamc\u0131l\u0131k ve medyan\u0131n, spor ile ili\u015fkisine y\u00f6nelik dersler al\u0131yor. (2)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-251103\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/pique-harvard.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"747\" height=\"441\" title=\"\"><\/p>\n<p>Son olarak \u015funu ifade etmek isterim ki Arda Turan gibi sistematik olarak incitmeyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan bir spor insan\u0131, bu durumu daha a\u011f\u0131r ba\u015fl\u0131 ve a\u00e7\u0131k bir zihinle kar\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir <strong>TV program\u0131n\u0131<\/strong> be\u011fenmediyse kanal\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmelidir, bir <strong>gazeteci<\/strong>nin yorumunu be\u011fenmediyse bir daha okumamal\u0131d\u0131r, bas\u0131nda ve <strong>sosyal medya<\/strong>da hakaret ve iftira i\u00e7eren haber ve yorumlar\u0131 bas\u0131n dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 takip edip hukuk dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 yasal yollara ba\u015fvurmal\u0131d\u0131r, bir <strong>antren\u00f6r<\/strong>\u00fcn tutumunun d\u00fcr\u00fcst ve adil olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan eminse onun oldu\u011fu tak\u0131mda oynamamal\u0131d\u0131r. Yani se\u00e7im \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz var ve sizi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclterek kendilerini b\u00fcy\u00fctmeye, sizi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layarak kendilerini \u00fcst\u00fcn hissetmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar ancak siz incitilmeye raz\u0131 oldu\u011funuz s\u00fcrece ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olabilirler. Yoksa kimin ne oldu\u011funu T\u00fcrkiye ger\u00e7ekten biliyor\u2026!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ersin Afacan \/ NationalTurk<\/strong><br \/>\nKAYNAK<br \/>\n(1) Marinoff, Lou; Felsefe Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Nas\u0131l De\u011fi\u015ftirir, Pegasus Yay\u0131nlar\u0131, \u0130stanbul-2007<br \/>\n(2)http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/arda-turan-gazeteciye-saldirirken-takim-arkadasi-harvardda-yuksek-lisansa-basladi\/<br \/>\ninstagram.com\/mental_destek<br \/>\ntwitter.com\/mentaldestek<\/p>\n<!-- Error, Advert is not available at this time due to schedule\/geolocation restrictions! -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sportif alanda zihinsel performans antren\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yapan NationalTurk yorumcusu Ersin Afacan\u2019\u0131n &#8220;Arda Turan ve \u0130ncinme ile Zarar G\u00f6rme Fark\u0131&#8221; ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131; Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde, A Milli Tak\u0131m oyuncular\u0131n\u0131 \u0130talya&#8217;ya g\u00f6t\u00fcren u\u00e7akta olay \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Arda Turan, Milliyet Gazetesi yazar\u0131 Bilal Me\u015fe&#8217;ye EURO-2016 s\u0131ras\u0131ndaki yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 haberler ve \u00f6zellikle prim konusunda yazd\u0131klar\u0131 nedeniyle hakaret ve k\u00fcf\u00fcr edip fiziksel sald\u0131r\u0131da bulundu. &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192205,"featured_media":251111,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6774,26554,5005,6194],"tags":[6335,1038,196010,6498,24446],"class_list":["post-251110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-futbol","category-haftanin-yorumu","category-manset","category-spor","tag-arda-turan","tag-barcelona","tag-ersin-afacan","tag-milli-takim","tag-pique"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/251110","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192205"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=251110"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/251110\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/251111"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=251110"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=251110"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=251110"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}