\u0130nsan duygularla yo\u011frulmu\u015f varl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ve yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde do\u011fan\u0131n misafiridir. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 co\u011frafya ona dil vermi\u015f, renk vermi\u015f, inan\u00e7 vermi\u015f, sevginin ifade etme rit\u00fcellerini \u00f6\u011fretmi\u015f.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan birbirini anlamadan do\u011fan\u0131n par\u00e7as\u0131 olamaz.<\/p>\n
Do\u011fan\u0131n en iyi anla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 canl\u0131 t\u00fcr\u00fc di\u015filerdir. \u00d6zellikle kad\u0131nd\u0131r. Do\u011fa kendi \u00fcretme \u00f6zelli\u011fini t\u00fcm di\u015filerde oldu\u011fu gibi kad\u0131na da bah\u015federek ona g\u00fcvenmi\u015ftir. Bu g\u00fcvenmenin bedeli, tanr\u0131lara inat do\u011furganl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ona bah\u015fetmesiyle kad\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131na diyet \u00f6demek olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n
Kad\u0131n anne oldu, abla oldu, k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu oldu\u2026 Ve duygu kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ete kemi\u011fe b\u00fcr\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f halini temsil etti.<\/p>\n
Erkek baba oldu, abi oldu, erkek \u00e7ocu\u011fu oldu\u2026 Ve duygu karma\u015fas\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 annede, sevgilide, \u00e7ocukta bularak kendini \u0131slah etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n
Duygu karma\u015f\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kodlayamayan erkek, erkeklik (!) kisvesi alt\u0131nda do\u011faya ve insanl\u0131\u011fa peyda oldu.<\/p>\n
Erkeklik (!) bu karma\u015fa i\u00e7inde egemen olma d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fcyle kendini ifade etmek isteyince, ortaya kaos, \u015fiddet ve sava\u015f \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u00d6nce do\u011fayla ili\u015fkisini kopard\u0131, sonra s\u0131ra kad\u0131na geldi.<\/p>\n
Kad\u0131ndaki zarafet ve erkek sayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131, erkeklik ideolojisinin \u015fiddet \u00e7eli\u015fkisini kontrol edemeyecek d\u00fczeye gelince, \u00f6l\u00fcmler ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz oldu.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsanlara co\u011frafyalarda ya\u015fam bah\u015feden do\u011fa, gencecik insanlar\u0131n mezarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 haline geldi. Erkeklik ideolojisi, kendi egemenli\u011fi i\u00e7in insan\u0131 kurban etmeyi gelenek haline getirerek, kudretini korku i\u00e7inde egemen k\u0131lmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n
Adaletini ve ahlaki de\u011ferlerini kaybettik\u00e7e korktu, korktuk\u00e7a daha \u00e7ok \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n
Kad\u0131n\u0131 ve do\u011fay\u0131 kaybeden erkeklik (!), kendi bedeni i\u00e7inde k\u0131yametin kendisi oldu.<\/p>\n
K\u0131yamet i\u00e7in kutsal kitaplara, mitlere ve inan\u00e7 hik\u00e2yelerine gerek kalmayacak d\u00fczeyde, yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde tanr\u0131lar\u0131n bile tasvir edemeyece\u011fi \u015fekilde ac\u0131mas\u0131z oldu.<\/p>\n
Bu ac\u0131mas\u0131zl\u0131k, kad\u0131n\u0131 ve erke\u011fi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n mezarlar\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda toplay\u0131p her dilden a\u011f\u0131tlar yakt\u0131rmaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcm bunlara ra\u011fmen sevgimizi bulmak zorundayd\u0131k.<\/p>\n
Sevgide toplanmak zorunday\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Annemizin babam\u0131z\u0131n ellerinde.<\/p>\n
K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve o\u011flumuzun yana\u011f\u0131nda.<\/p>\n
Sevgilimizin dudaklar\u0131nda.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n omuzunda.<\/p>\n
Ve sar\u0131lmak laz\u0131m!<\/p>\n
T\u00fcm bunlara kavu\u015fmak i\u00e7in sar\u0131lmak laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsanl\u0131k onurunu kurtarmak i\u00e7in sar\u0131lmak laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Erkeklik vesayetinden kurtulmak i\u00e7in sar\u0131lmak laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Ellere kavu\u015fmak i\u00e7in, yanaklara kavu\u015fmak i\u00e7in, dudaklara kavu\u015fmak i\u00e7in sar\u0131lmak laz\u0131m, omuz omuza vermek i\u00e7in sar\u0131lmak laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n
\u00d6nce sar\u0131lmal\u0131 ki y\u00fcrekten gelen s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 hissedelim. O, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n varolu\u015f sebebi olan sevgi s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 insan insana bah\u015fetmeden sevgiyi anlatmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmaz.<\/p>\n
Sar\u0131l\u0131p: \u201cSeni seviyorum\u201d demek laz\u0131m. \u201cKurban olurum sana\u201d demek laz\u0131m<\/p>\n
T\u00fcm bu co\u011frafyada ya\u015famak i\u00e7in ortak dil sevgiyi payla\u015fmak gerek. Payla\u015fmak i\u00e7in dile, duaya ihtiya\u00e7 yoktur. G\u00f6zlerine bakmak ve sar\u0131lmak, sevgiyi bah\u015fetmek en b\u00fcy\u00fck ibadettir.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsana ve insanl\u0131\u011fa sar\u0131lmak gerek.<\/p>\n
Sar\u0131lmak i\u00e7in y\u00fcr\u00fcmek gerek, emek gerek, bedel gerek.<\/p>\n
\u201chep bir a\u011f\u0131zdan t\u00fcrk\u00fc s\u00f6yleyip<\/p>\n
hep beraber sulardan \u00e7ekmek a\u011f\u0131,<\/p>\n
demiri oya gibi i\u015fleyip hep beraber,<\/p>\n
hep beraber s\u00fcrebilmek topra\u011f\u0131,<\/p>\n
ball\u0131 incirleri hep beraber yiyebilmek,<\/p>\n
y\u00e2rin yana\u011f\u0131ndan gayr\u0131 her \u015feyde<\/p>\n
her yerde<\/p>\n
hep beraber!<\/p>\n
diyebilmek<\/p>\n
i\u00e7in<\/p>\n
on binler verdi sekiz binini\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan \/ NationalTurk<\/strong><\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" NationalTurk yorumcusu M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan’\u0131n bu haftaki “Sar\u0131lmak i\u00e7in y\u00fcr\u00fcmek gerek” ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131; \u0130nsan duygularla yo\u011frulmu\u015f varl\u0131kt\u0131r. Ve yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde do\u011fan\u0131n misafiridir. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 co\u011frafya ona dil vermi\u015f, renk vermi\u015f, inan\u00e7 vermi\u015f, sevginin ifade etme rit\u00fcellerini \u00f6\u011fretmi\u015f. \u0130nsan birbirini anlamadan do\u011fan\u0131n par\u00e7as\u0131 olamaz. Do\u011fan\u0131n en iyi anla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 canl\u0131 t\u00fcr\u00fc di\u015filerdir. \u00d6zellikle kad\u0131nd\u0131r. Do\u011fa kendi \u00fcretme \u00f6zelli\u011fini t\u00fcm di\u015filerde …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192211,"featured_media":252185,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26554,5005],"tags":[195969,10061],"class_list":["post-252184","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-haftanin-yorumu","category-manset","tag-muslum-gulhan","tag-nationalturk"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/252184","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192211"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=252184"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/252184\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/252185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=252184"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=252184"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=252184"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}