Demokratik team\u00fclleri oturtamam\u0131\u015f toplumlardaki sayg\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7eri\u011fi korkudur.<\/p>\n
Korkuyu olu\u015fturan bile\u015fenleri kurgulayan yap\u0131 ise devlet mekanizmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir sistem kisvesi alt\u0131nda kendini korur. Ve her \u015fey, bu s\u00fcre i\u00e7inde insanl\u0131k alan\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p devletin taleplerine y\u00f6nelir. Devlete sadakat politikas\u0131 insan\u0131n t\u00fcm erdemlerini metala\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fam\u0131n varl\u0131k sebebi bir mekanizma olur. Her \u015feyin \u2018insan i\u00e7in\u2019 olmas\u0131 gereken s\u00fcre\u00e7te art\u0131k her \u015fey \u2018devlet i\u00e7in\u2019 haline getirilir. Ve b\u00f6yle toplumlarda, anne ve babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan \u00f6nce \u00f6lme \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fckleri ellerinden al\u0131n\u0131r. Metala\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan sanat, metala\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan sa\u011fl\u0131k, metala\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan e\u011fitim, metala\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan bilim, metala\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan spor\u2026 Bu kurgular\u0131n tamam\u0131, devletin bekas\u0131 ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda t\u00fcm \u00f6zg\u00fcr ve yarat\u0131c\u0131 benliklerini kaybeder. Ortaya bir demir y\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ve y\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde, ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f ve ya\u015fanacak hik\u00e2yeleri olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n tertemiz bedenleri yatar. Ama hareketsiz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcp ko\u015fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n
Hik\u00e2yelerinin pe\u015finden ko\u015farlar\u2026<\/p>\n
Daha ya\u015fanmas\u0131 gereken hik\u00e2yelerinin\u2026 Niye hikayelerinin ellerinden al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmezler. Bir \u2018kader\u2019 kand\u0131rmacas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde, hik\u00e2yelerinin kahraman\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in saklad\u0131klar\u0131 umutlar\u0131n\u0131 bir hemzemin ge\u00e7idin alt\u0131nda kaybetmelerini bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc anlayamazlar! Anlayamazlar \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc, hemzemin ge\u00e7idin \u00f6ncesindeki ve sonras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 kimin neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da anlayamazlar!<\/p>\n
Anneleri ve babalar\u0131 da anlayamaz\u2026<\/p>\n
En \u2018ucuz \u015feyin insan hayat\u0131\u2019 oldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011fiyle y\u00fczle\u015fmek ac\u0131 verir insana.<\/p>\n
Neden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan \u00f6nce \u00f6lme \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fcklerinin ellerinden al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamalar\u0131 da m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n
Ebeveynlerin topra\u011fa olan sevgisindeki i\u00e7erik, canlar\u0131n\u0131 ancak ona teslim etme g\u00fc\u00e7lerini olmas\u0131ndan kaynaklan\u0131r.<\/p>\n
G\u00fcvenecek bir tek yer tertemiz bir toprak par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ve ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rg\u00fctlemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. \u00d6nce, kendi y\u00fcre\u011finde ba\u015flar \u00f6rg\u00fctlenme, sonra t\u00fcm k\u0131lcallar\u0131na kadar n\u00fcfus eder. Hayatta kalman\u0131n, dayanman\u0131n ger\u00e7e\u011fidir \u00f6rg\u00fctlenmek. Kendisiyle ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131karak, kendi i\u00e7lerinde bir ifade \u015feklini ac\u0131y\u0131 \u0131slah edecek \u015fekilde \u00f6rg\u00fctlerler.<\/p>\n
Hik\u00e2yeleri \u00f6rg\u00fctlemek i\u00e7in \u00f6nce ac\u0131lar\u0131 \u00f6rg\u00fctlemeleri gerekir.<\/p>\n
Bu ger\u00e7ek bir insanl\u0131k erdemidir. Kay\u0131ts\u0131z \u015farts\u0131z dik duru\u015fun onurudur. Zaten ya\u015famlar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6denebilecek en a\u011f\u0131r bedeli \u00f6demi\u015flerdir.<\/p>\n
Ama ellerinde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan kalan \u00e7ok de\u011ferli hik\u00e2yeler vard\u0131r. O k\u0131sac\u0131k ya\u015famlarda ortaya koyduklar\u0131 de\u011ferlerin olu\u015fturdu\u011fu hikayeler. Ve ya\u015fanmam\u0131\u015f olup ac\u0131yla \u00f6rg\u00fctlenen hik\u00e2yeler\u2026<\/p>\n
\u015eimdi anne ve babalar\u0131n tek \u00e7abas\u0131 bu hik\u00e2yelerin payda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bulmak.<\/p>\n
M\u0131sra Han\u0131m\u2019\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi\u2026<\/p>\n
O\u011fuz Arda\u2019n\u0131n Sel \u00c7ocuk Derne\u011fi\u2019ni kurmas\u0131ndaki ama\u00e7 budur.<\/p>\n
Be\u015f metrekareye, 9 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki O\u011fuz Arda\u2019n\u0131n Galatasaray\u2019dan Barselona\u2019ya uzanan koca bir d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 kapsayan hik\u00e2yelerini s\u0131\u011fd\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Oras\u0131 bir dernek odas\u0131 de\u011fil, hik\u00e2ye evi. Ya\u015fam\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in payda\u015flar\u0131 bulma yeri.<\/p>\n
O\u011fuz Arda\u2019n\u0131n hik\u00e2yelerinin payda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in M\u0131sra Han\u0131m\u2019\u0131n ortaya koydu\u011fu iradeyi anlatmak haddimiz de\u011fil tabii ki\u2026<\/p>\n
Bir ac\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6rg\u00fctlenmesinin sayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan sonra, hik\u00e2yeleri toplamak ve bir dernek \u00e7at\u0131s\u0131 alt\u0131nda toplanmak \u00e7ok kolay olmasa gerek. Yar\u0131m kalan hik\u00e2yeyi tamamlamak i\u00e7in kurulmu\u015f olan bu derne\u011fe katk\u0131 sa\u011flamak ve bu kurgunun nas\u0131l bir sorumluluk oldu\u011funu anlayabilmek i\u00e7in o oday\u0131 g\u00f6rmek gerek.<\/p>\n
T\u0131pk\u0131 o 25 can gibi, O\u011fuz Arda\u2019n\u0131n da beklentilerini anlamak belki iki veya \u00fc\u00e7 resme bakmakla yeterli olamayacakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n hik\u00e2yelerindeki \u00fctopik kurgular\u0131 ve sevgi dolu i\u00e7erikleri anlamak hi\u00e7bir zaman m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olamaz. Onlar\u0131n temiz sevgilerine kar\u015f\u0131n, ebeveynler olarak, sevgiyi \u00f6rg\u00fctlemekteki basiretsizli\u011fimiz bizleri s\u00fcrekli bir \u2018yas\u2019 rit\u00fcelleri i\u00e7inde kalmam\u0131za neden olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Sevgiden korkar hale gelen \u2018ruhsuz\u2019 varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n korkular\u0131 kendine h\u00fccre yarat\u0131r. Bu h\u00fccrede, baz\u0131 \u015feyleri \u2018anlama\u2019 yetimizi \u2018kaybetmek\u2019 i\u00e7in kendimizi \u2018ikna\u2019 eder duruma geliriz. Bu duyars\u0131zl\u0131k, kendimizi ve \u00e7evremizi korudu\u011fumuzu sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anda, sahip \u00e7\u0131kamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z de\u011ferleri ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla beraber kaybetmemize neden olur. <\/p>\n
Geriye, hik\u00e2yeleri toplayanlar\u0131n \u00f6rg\u00fctl\u00fc ac\u0131lar\u0131na yana\u015fmak kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan – NationalTurk<\/strong><\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" NationalTurk yorumcusu M\u00fcsl\u00fcm G\u00fclhan’\u0131n bu haftaki “M\u0131sra Han\u0131m\u2019\u0131n hik\u00e2yeleri \u00f6rg\u00fctledi\u011fi yer” ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131; Demokratik team\u00fclleri oturtamam\u0131\u015f toplumlardaki sayg\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7eri\u011fi korkudur. Korkuyu olu\u015fturan bile\u015fenleri kurgulayan yap\u0131 ise devlet mekanizmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir sistem kisvesi alt\u0131nda kendini korur. Ve her \u015fey, bu s\u00fcre i\u00e7inde insanl\u0131k alan\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p devletin taleplerine y\u00f6nelir. Devlete sadakat politikas\u0131 insan\u0131n t\u00fcm erdemlerini metala\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Ya\u015fam\u0131n …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192211,"featured_media":273803,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6155,26554,5005],"tags":[14600,4114,217914],"class_list":["post-273802","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem","category-haftanin-yorumu","category-manset","tag-barselona","tag-galatasaray","tag-oguz-arda-sel"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273802","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192211"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=273802"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273802\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/273803"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=273802"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=273802"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=273802"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}