Sputnik’in haberine g\u00f6re<\/a> Almanya’da s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmac\u0131larla ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 cinsel sald\u0131r\u0131 vakalar\u0131 G\u00f6\u00e7, M\u00fclteciler ve Uyumdan Sorumlu Devlet Bakan\u0131 Annette Widmann-Mauz’un cinsel e\u011fitim dersleri verilmesi \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na yol a\u00e7arken, ba\u015fkentte ‘cinsel ili\u015fkide r\u0131za’ konulu kurslara kat\u0131lma se\u00e7ene\u011fi sunulmaya ba\u015fland\u0131.<\/p>\nSadece Berlin’de d\u00fczenlenen 4 saatlik se\u00e7meli kursun ad\u0131 ‘G\u00fcvenlik i\u00e7in Birlikte’. Sponsorlu\u011funu Almanya’da g\u00f6\u00e7menler i\u00e7in hosteller zinciri i\u015fleten Norve\u00e7li \u00f6rg\u00fct ‘Hero’ yap\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Kursa kat\u0131lmay\u0131 tercih eden Suriye, Irak ve Afganistan’dan s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmac\u0131lar, at\u00f6lyede g\u00f6sterilen videolar \u00fczerinden tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor. <\/p>\n
Videolardan birinde gece kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde bulu\u015fan bir kad\u0131nla erkek, i\u00e7iyor, dans ediyor, g\u00fcl\u00fcyor ve \u00f6p\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n
Erkek, kad\u0131n\u0131 evine g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor, kap\u0131y\u0131 kilitliyor, gitmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan kad\u0131na tecav\u00fcz ediyor. <\/p>\n
S\u0131n\u0131ftaki 30’lu ya\u015flardaki baz\u0131s\u0131 baba olan 7 erkekten, videoya tepki g\u00f6sterip yorum yapmalar\u0131 istenildi.<\/p>\n
Biri, videodaki erke\u011fin gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n\u0131n sarho\u015flu\u011fundan istifade etti\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyle “Kad\u0131n \u00e7ok fazla i\u00e7ti, yatt\u0131lar” dedi.<\/p>\n
Bir di\u011feri “Erkek ne istedi\u011fini \u00e7ok iyi biliyordu” yorumunu yapt\u0131.<\/p>\n
Bu noktada at\u00f6lye moderat\u00f6r\u00fc Carola Pietrusky-Niane, “Berlin’de gen\u00e7lerin \u00e7ok fazla i\u00e7ki i\u00e7ip uyu\u015fturucu kullanmas\u0131, s\u0131k rastlanan durumdur. Baz\u0131lar\u0131nda \u015fiddet su\u00e7lar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015febilir” diye s\u00f6ze girip “Bunlar rahat\u00e7a konu\u015fulmas\u0131 zor konular” diye ekledi. <\/p>\n
Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 r\u0131zayla seks ile tecav\u00fcz aras\u0131ndaki fark\u0131n g\u00f6sterilmesine y\u00f6nelik bir ba\u015fka videoda \u00fcstses \u015f\u00f6yle diyor:<\/p>\n
“Birine ‘\u00e7ay ister misin’ diye sormak gibi. Kad\u0131n ‘evet, isterim’ derse, ger\u00e7ekten istedi\u011fi i\u00e7indir. Karars\u0131zsa, \u00e7ay\u0131 demleyip tekrar sorabilirsiniz. Kad\u0131n ‘te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederim, kals\u0131n, istemem’ derse, \u00e7ay\u0131 demlemeyin ve k\u0131zmay\u0131n. Cinsellikte de ayn\u0131 \u015fey ge\u00e7erli.”<\/p>\n
Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131nda kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar y\u00fczleri birbirlerine d\u00f6n\u00fck duruyor. Bir tablet, birbirlerinin ki\u015fisel alan\u0131n\u0131 istila etmeden birbirlerine ne kadar yakla\u015fabileceklerini g\u00f6steriyor. <\/p>\n
Pietrusky-Niane, “Konu\u015ftu\u011funuz insana fazla yakla\u015fmay\u0131n. Ayn\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erli, onlar da yabanc\u0131lar taraf\u0131ndan dokunulmaktan ho\u015flanmazlar” dedi. <\/p>\n
Kursa kat\u0131lan gruptakiler, cinsel taciz ya da tecav\u00fcz\u00fc polise bildireceklerini failin akrabalar\u0131 olmas\u0131 halinde garanti edemeyeceklerini s\u00f6yledi. <\/p>\n
Biri “bizim \u00fclkemizde iki yasa vard\u0131r, biri devletin, di\u011feri ailenin” a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131 getirdi. <\/p>\n
Merseburg \u00dcniversitesi’nden cinsellik profes\u00f6r\u00fc Heinz-J\u00fcrgen Voss, k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve geleneklerdeki farkl\u0131l\u0131klar nedeniyle bunun \u00e7ok isabetli bir kurs oldu\u011funu ve bu e\u011fitimin s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmac\u0131lara \u00e7ok yarayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
Voss, b\u00f6yle bir kursun s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmac\u0131lara t\u00fcm Almanya \u00e7ap\u0131nda sunulmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirtti. <\/p>\n
S\u0131\u011f\u0131nmac\u0131lara yard\u0131m \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc Pro-Asyl ise farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fteydi:<\/p>\n
“De\u011ferleri ve normlar\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131fa k\u0131yasla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta \u00e7ok daha iyi \u00f6\u011freniriz. \u0130nsanlarla temas kurmak, okulda desteklenmek ve istihdam piyasas\u0131na eri\u015fim sa\u011flamak, entegrasyon kurulmas\u0131n\u0131n ve cinsel su\u00e7lar\u0131n \u00f6nlenmesinin en iyi anahtar\u0131d\u0131r.”<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Almanya’da s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmac\u0131larla ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 cinsel sald\u0131r\u0131larda ge\u00e7en y\u0131l y\u00fczde 15 art\u0131\u015f ya\u015fan\u0131rken, Berlin’de s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmac\u0131lara ‘ili\u015fkide r\u0131za’ kurslar\u0131na kat\u0131lma se\u00e7ene\u011fi sunulmaya ba\u015fland\u0131. Cinsel sald\u0131r\u0131 i\u00e7eri\u011finin de bulundu\u011fu videolar izletilen erkek s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmac\u0131lar, bunun \u00fczerinden tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor. Sputnik’in haberine g\u00f6re Almanya’da s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmac\u0131larla ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 cinsel sald\u0131r\u0131 vakalar\u0131 G\u00f6\u00e7, M\u00fclteciler ve Uyumdan Sorumlu Devlet Bakan\u0131 Annette Widmann-Mauz’un cinsel e\u011fitim dersleri verilmesi \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":280578,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6770,6155,5005],"tags":[2174,1120,203721],"class_list":["post-280577","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-avrupa","category-gundem","category-manset","tag-almanya","tag-berlin","tag-siginmacilar"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280577","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=280577"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280577\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/280578"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=280577"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=280577"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=280577"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}