{"id":33399,"date":"2010-07-23T14:58:18","date_gmt":"2010-07-23T12:58:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/?p=33399"},"modified":"2019-03-28T11:14:11","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T08:14:11","slug":"kadin-erkek-esitligi-9001386","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/kadin-erkek-esitligi-9001386\/","title":{"rendered":"“Kad\u0131n erkek e\u015fitli\u011fine inanm\u0131yorum”"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"Nedir anlam\u0131 bu bo\u015f, kli\u015fe c\u00fcmlenin? Sinir oldu\u011fum manas\u0131z, i\u00e7i bo\u015f laflardan biri (di\u011ferlerini ba\u015fka zaman yazar\u0131m).\u00a0“E\u015fit” kelimesi tam bir kand\u0131rmaca burada. FARKLI denmek isteniyorsa tamam. Evet farkl\u0131y\u0131z. Anatomik olarak farkl\u0131y\u0131z detaya gerek yok.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Beynimizin yap\u0131s\u0131 ve \u00fcretti\u011fi kimyasallar bak\u0131m\u0131ndan da farkl\u0131y\u0131z. Bu, kad\u0131n\u0131n ezilmesini, \u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fcp eve t\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131, istihdamda az yer almas\u0131n\u0131 hakl\u0131 m\u0131 k\u0131lar? Bunu gerektirir mi? B\u00f6yle mant\u0131k olur mu? Baz\u0131 erkeklerin ve H Av\u015far gibi imkanlar\u0131 \u00e7ok olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen kendini geli\u015ftirmemi\u015f, e\u011fitmemi\u015f baz\u0131 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ikide bir “kad\u0131n – erkek e\u015fitli\u011fine inanm\u0131yorum” demesi ne kadar da anlams\u0131z, mant\u0131ks\u0131z, zavall\u0131 bir beyanat.<\/p>\n

Recep Bey’in bir salon dolusu kad\u0131na bu laf\u0131 etmesinin hi\u00e7 \u00fczerinde durmuyorum. Bir laf etti ya bas\u0131n\u0131m\u0131z hemen birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn bunun \u00fczerinde konu\u015fur, tart\u0131\u015fma programlar\u0131 yap\u0131l\u0131r. Ne gereksiz. Kendisinin fikirlerini biliyoruz zaten. Bir sene sonra da bunlar\u0131 pek de fazla duymak zorunda kalmayaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n

\u0130lk bloglar\u0131ndan birinde KADIN BEYN\u0130 adl\u0131 kitaptan s\u00f6z etmi\u015f, herkese okumas\u0131n\u0131 tavsiye etmi\u015ftim. B\u0131rak\u0131n kas g\u00fcc\u00fc farkl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 (20 kilolok bir nesneyi kad\u0131n ya kald\u0131ramaz ya zor kald\u0131r\u0131r, erkekse daha kolay kald\u0131r\u0131r ya) beyinlerimiz tamamene yak\u0131n bi\u00e7imde farkl\u0131. Beyin g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleme teknikleri geli\u015fti\u011finden beri yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalarla bu ispat edildi.Duygulan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131zda, belirli olaylara tepkilerimizde beyinlerimizin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 (uyar\u0131lan b\u00f6lgeler, \u00fcretilen n\u00f6ro ta\u015f\u0131c\u0131y\u0131 kimyasallar) \u00e7ok farkl\u0131. Kitab\u0131 okudu\u011fumda kad\u0131nla erke\u011fin anla\u015fabilmesi, birbirini anlayabilmesi imkans\u0131z demi\u015ftim! Bu da 1-2 seneden daha fazla s\u00fcre evli ama mutlu \u00e7ift say\u0131s\u0131 azl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klar.<\/p>\n

Peki b\u00f6yle olmas\u0131, erkeklerin kad\u0131nlara d\u00f6vmesini, s\u00f6vmesini, kad\u0131n\u0131n her alanda ezilmesinin, parlamentoda ve i\u015f kollar\u0131nda az yer almas\u0131n\u0131 hakl\u0131 k\u0131lar m\u0131? B\u00f6yle ak\u0131l y\u00fcr\u00fctme (muhakeme) olur mu? Bana g\u00f6re ak\u0131l’\u0131n a’s\u0131n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, kompleks sahibi ve \u00f6fkesine hakim olamayan erkeklerin kas g\u00fcc\u00fc avantaj\u0131ndan yararlan\u0131p garip bir nefretle kad\u0131nlara yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131… Bizim toplumda \u00e7ok.. Sebebini anlayam\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

D\u00fcnyada ve \u00fclkemizde kad\u0131n – erkek oran\u0131 y\u00fczde 50 – y\u00fczde 50. Buna g\u00f6re parlamentoda vekillerin yar\u0131s\u0131, \u015firketlerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 kad\u0131n olmal\u0131 (zaten, kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6fke kontrolunu beyninin salg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131 n\u00f6rokimyasallarla daha iyi yapabildi\u011fi, ayn\u0131 anda bir ka\u00e7 i\u015fi erkekler yapamazken yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bilimsel ve giderek herkesce malum olan ger\u00e7ek bilgiler ki bu da kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u015firket y\u00f6netmede olsun \u00fclke y\u00f6netmede olsun erkeklerden daha farkl\u0131 ve bence daha iyi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n su g\u00f6t\u00fcrmez kan\u0131tlar\u0131, en az\u0131ndan daha az sava\u015f \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r ya da \u00e7\u0131kmayacakt\u0131r….)<\/p>\n

Her alanda y\u00fczde 50 kad\u0131n olmad\u0131k\u00e7a; bu ba\u015far\u0131lmad\u0131k\u00e7a, DEMOKRAS\u0130 olmaz. \u00dclkenin yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n evden ba\u015fka hi\u00e7 bir yerde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, yok varsay\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fcp (k\u0131zlara bunun \u0130NAN\u00c7 oldu\u011fu dayat\u0131l\u0131p, inand\u0131r\u0131l\u0131p, kabul ettirilip asl\u0131nda eve t\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 – en az 3 \u00e7ocukla (neden 3?) bir \u00fclkede demokrasi olur mu? Demokrasi bir ka\u00e7 senede bir e\u015f dost, arkada\u015f, takip edilen tv kanal\u0131ndan al\u0131nan fikirlerle, nas\u0131l say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 da hi\u00e7 belli olmayan ka\u011f\u0131tlar\u0131 sand\u0131klara atmak de\u011fildir. Herkesin her alanda temsili ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve ifade \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcr ki bunlar bizde var diyen varsa \u015fa\u015far\u0131m….<\/p>\n

Filiz Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yazar\u0131n t\u00fcm yaz\u0131lar\u0131na g\u00f6zat \u00bb<\/a><\/p>\n

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Nedir anlam\u0131 bu bo\u015f, kli\u015fe c\u00fcmlenin? Sinir oldu\u011fum manas\u0131z, i\u00e7i bo\u015f laflardan biri (di\u011ferlerini ba\u015fka zaman yazar\u0131m). “E\u015fit” kelimesi tam bir kand\u0131rmaca burada. FARKLI denmek isteniyorsa tamam. Evet farkl\u0131y\u0131z. Anatomik olarak farkl\u0131y\u0131z detaya gerek yok.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192206,"featured_media":33400,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5005,6202,6805],"tags":[3888,36895,196009,32938,36894,36891,36892,36893],"class_list":["post-33399","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-manset","category-politika","category-turkiye","tag-basbakan-erdogan","tag-erkek","tag-filiz-eyuboglu","tag-filiz-eyuboglu-yazilari","tag-kadin","tag-kadin-erkek-esitligi","tag-kadin-erkek-esitligi-erdogan","tag-kadin-erkek-esitligine-inanmiyoum"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192206"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33399"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33399\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}