{"id":65328,"date":"2011-04-12T10:09:38","date_gmt":"2011-04-12T07:09:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/?p=65328"},"modified":"2019-03-28T10:29:53","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T07:29:53","slug":"etkili-iletisim-kurma-teknikleri-8241","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/etkili-iletisim-kurma-teknikleri-8241\/","title":{"rendered":"Etkili \u0130leti\u015fim Kurmada Uygulanabilecek Teknikler &#8211; 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/ofis-cini-nationalturk.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-61981\" title=\"Ofis Cini\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/ofis-cini-nationalturk.jpg\" width=\"138\" height=\"150\"><\/a>D\u00fcnk\u00fc konumuza devam edecek olursak:<\/h4>\n<p>Paralel ileti\u015fim konusundaki ikinci yakla\u015f\u0131m asl\u0131nda bu konuda temel olan yakla\u015f\u0131md\u0131r. Psikolojide buna, &#8220;Transaksiyonel Analiz&#8221; denilmektedir. Buna g\u00f6re insan ki\u015fili\u011fi \u00fc\u00e7 alt benlikten olu\u015fmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bu benlikler; Ana-baba benli\u011fi, yeti\u015fkin benli\u011fi ve \u00e7ocuk benli\u011fi \u015feklindedir. Bu benliklerin herbiri kay\u0131tl\u0131 birer kaset olarak insan bilincinde yer etmi\u015ftir. Birey g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131nda, olay ve durumlar veya ki\u015filerle ili\u015fkilerinde bu benlik kasetlerini kullan\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte paralel ileti\u015fim, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 iki ki\u015fi ileti\u015fimde bulunurken ayn\u0131 benlik kasetlerini \u00e7al\u0131yorlarsa m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan, aksi takdirde paralel olmayan bir ileti\u015fim s\u00f6z konusudur.<\/p>\n<h4>Olaylara Yakla\u015f\u0131mda Kullan\u0131lan, Ki\u015fili\u011fin \u00dc\u00e7 &#8220;Benlik&#8221; Durumu:<\/h4>\n<p><strong>Anne-Baba (Ebeveyn) Benli\u011fimiz:<\/strong> Kural koyan, koruyucu, ele\u015ftiren taraf\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Di\u011fer insanlara nas\u0131l davran\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi konusunda \u00f6\u011f\u00fctler veya emirler verir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yeti\u015fkin Benli\u011fimiz:<\/strong> Bireyle\u015fmi\u015f ve ak\u0131lc\u0131 yan\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi dikkate alan, veri toplayan, de\u011ferlendiren, analiz yapan ve mant\u0131kl\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar \u00e7\u0131karan taraf\u0131m\u0131z. Ki\u015fili\u011fin ak\u0131lc\u0131 yan\u0131d\u0131r. D\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyadan ve yukar\u0131da belirtti\u011fimiz di\u011fer benliklerde gelen verileri kodlar, i\u015fler ve ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i bir \u015fekilde bir davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imi olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuk Benli\u011fimiz:<\/strong> Duygular\u0131n a\u011f\u0131r bast\u0131\u011f\u0131 yan\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk benli\u011fimiz do\u011fal \u00e7ocuk ve uyarlanm\u0131\u015f \u00e7ocuk olarak ikiye ayr\u0131l\u0131r. Ki\u015fili\u011fimizin az geli\u015fmi\u015f ve \u00e7ocuksu yan\u0131d\u0131r. Do\u011fal \u00e7ocuk benli\u011fimiz ki\u015finin fiziksel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zetir. Tepkileri anl\u0131kt\u0131r. E\u011fitilmemi\u015ftir. Uyarlanm\u0131\u015f \u00e7ocuk benli\u011fi ise ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 ve e\u011fitilmi\u015f \u00e7ocuktur.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan ba\u015fka biriyle konu\u015furken kendi benlik durumlar\u0131n\u0131n birinden, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakinin benlik durumlar\u0131ndan birine do\u011fru konu\u015fur. Burada bekledi\u011fimiz ya da \u00f6\u011frenilmesini istedi\u011fimiz ileti\u015fimdeki iki ki\u015finin yeti\u015fkin benlik durumlar\u0131n\u0131 kullanmalar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Be\u015f yaz\u0131l\u0131k bu serimizin devam\u0131 yar\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n<!-- Error, Advert is not available at this time due to schedule\/geolocation restrictions! -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>D\u00fcnk\u00fc konumuza devam edecek olursak&#8230; Paralel ileti\u015fim konusundaki ikinci yakla\u015f\u0131m asl\u0131nda bu konuda temel olan yakla\u015f\u0131md\u0131r. Psikolojide buna, &#8220;Transaksiyonel Analiz&#8221; denilmektedir. Buna g\u00f6re insan ki\u015fili\u011fi \u00fc\u00e7 alt benlikten olu\u015fmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192215,"featured_media":65329,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6748,5005],"tags":[66726,66861,66727],"class_list":["post-65328","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-is-dunyasi","category-manset","tag-etkili-iletisim-kurma","tag-etkili-iletisim-kurma-teknikleri","tag-etkili-iletisim-kurmak"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65328","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192215"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65328"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65328\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65329"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65328"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65328"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65328"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}