{"id":71128,"date":"2011-06-03T12:35:44","date_gmt":"2011-06-03T09:35:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/?p=71128"},"modified":"2019-03-28T11:14:00","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T08:14:00","slug":"kelimeler-yetersiz-cocugunu-oldurdu-28469","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/kelimeler-yetersiz-cocugunu-oldurdu-28469\/","title":{"rendered":"Kelimeler Yetersiz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/filiz-eyuboglu1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-47800\" title=\"Filiz Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu\" src=\"http:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/filiz-eyuboglu1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"88\" height=\"115\"><\/a>\u00dc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocu\u011funu g\u00fcya hal\u0131ya \u00e7i\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in nacak sap\u0131 ile kafas\u0131na vurarak \u00f6ld\u00fcren kad\u0131n, erkek arkada\u015f\u0131na seslenip &#8220;bunu ay\u0131lt&#8221; diyor. Adam \u00e7ocugu ay\u0131ltmak i\u00e7in havada sallay\u0131p sallay\u0131p ay\u0131ltamay\u0131nca (!) yere f\u0131rlatm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar nas\u0131l canavarlar? Bunlara daha uygun bir s\u0131fat bileniniz var m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Birileri bunlar\u0131 lin\u00e7 etse, haks\u0131z m\u0131 olurlar?<\/p>\n<p>Sonra nedense &#8211; bir \u00e7ukur a\u00e7\u0131p g\u00f6mmek yak\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131 bunlara- hastaneye gidiyorlar, hayat\u0131 boyunca sevgi sefkat g\u00f6rmemi\u015f zavall\u0131 bebe\u011fin \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda beyin kanamas\u0131ndan \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor. V\u00fccudunda yan\u0131klar; daha \u00f6nce kaynar sular d\u00f6k\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f&#8230;. Midem bulan\u0131yor&#8230; Nefes alam\u0131yorum.<br \/>\nPolis arabas\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclen anne olacak kad\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131r olan 70&#8217;in de alt\u0131nda IQya sahip bir y\u00fcze ve duru\u015fa sahip bir geri zekal\u0131 gibi&#8230; Ve de bir canavar psikopat. &#8220;\u00c7ocu\u011funu neden \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fcn?&#8221; diyen muhabire c\u0131rtlak bir sesle &#8220;sana ne!&#8221; diyor. Ne \u00fczg\u00fcn, ne pi\u015fman.<\/p>\n<p>Adama dikkat etmedim&#8230; \u0130kisine de \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu hapis verilmeli. Kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na, 3 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir bebe\u011fe b\u00f6yle yapanlar, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na neler yapmazlar.<\/p>\n<p>Hayatta i\u00e7imi k\u00f6t\u00fc yapan \u00e7ok \u015fey var. Ama \u00e7ocuklara i\u015fkence ve \u00f6ld\u00fcrme midemi kald\u0131ran, g\u00fcnlerce akl\u0131ma tak\u0131lan, kesinlikle anlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u015fey&#8230; Duygusuzlu\u011fun, o \u00e7ocugu o kadar anlayamaman\u0131n, a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00e7i\u015f yapt\u0131 d\u00f6vmenin nas\u0131l bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu anlayam\u0131yorum. Beynim alm\u0131yor. A\u011flad\u0131 diye kaynar su d\u00f6kt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde o \u00e7ocuk susar m\u0131? feryat figan daha \u00e7ok ba\u011f\u0131racak, i\u00e7ler ac\u0131s\u0131 sesler \u00e7\u0131karacak&#8230; Buna y\u00fcrekleri nas\u0131l dayan\u0131yor&#8230; Bu tip insanlar nas\u0131l \u00f6rnek olur, nas\u0131l e\u011fitebilirler o \u00e7ocu\u011fu? Allah bu kad\u0131na neden \u00e7ocuk vermi\u015ftir? \u00c7ocuk i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nan milyonlarca kad\u0131n varken?<\/p>\n<p>Bu bak\u0131mdan tip davran\u0131lan, beyinsel, ruhsal ve ki\u015filik olarak geli\u015fmeleri imkans\u0131z, feci yaral\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in &#8220;kurtuldu&#8221; da denebilir:( B\u00f6yle insanlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda b\u0131rak\u0131n sevgi \u015fefkat g\u00f6rmeyi, s\u00fcrekli a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanarak ve i\u015fkence g\u00f6rerek, nas\u0131l bir insan olurdu??? Kendine \u00e7ok g\u00fcvensiz, cahil, e\u011fitimsiz, do\u011fruyu e\u011friyi ay\u0131ramayan bir zavall\u0131 ya da belki bir psikopat.<\/p>\n<p>Beni en k\u00f6t\u00fc, \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc yapan yapan su\u00e7 t\u00fcr\u00fc bu&#8230; Kad\u0131na vah\u015fet ve \u015fiddet ile ayn\u0131 s\u0131rada&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Filiz EY\u00dcBO\u011eLU<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00dc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocu\u011funu g\u00fcya hal\u0131ya \u00e7i\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in nacak sap\u0131 ile kafas\u0131na vurarak \u00f6ld\u00fcren kad\u0131n, erkek arkada\u015f\u0131na seslenip &#8220;bunu ay\u0131lt&#8221; diyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9192206,"featured_media":71131,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6700,26554,5005],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71128","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile","category-haftanin-yorumu","category-manset"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71128","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9192206"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71128"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71128\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/71131"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71128"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71128"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nationalturk.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71128"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}